For every 'If condition' there must be an 'Else option'!!!
We always dream for something.. we make efforts in that direction and then expect the desired fruit.. sometimes dreams become reality.. but in some cases we can't achieve our target though we put 100% efforts honestly.. nobody is culprit in some situations but one has to suffer a lot.. then it comes to depression, loneliness,
To avoid this situation it is always better to keep an alternative for our dreams/goals..
"i want this, i will try for it.. but if i can't get it, then i will try for another.. " Many people call "if i can't" thought as negativity.. it is not negative thinking at all.. it is just a way of keeping the power of hope in every circumstances.. For e.g. if u are looking for a job change.. u have applied in ur dream company and are preparing ur best for same.. if u neglect other jobs at that time and by hard luck u couldn't crack interview of ur dream company, at the end u will for sure get frustrated and hopeless.. but if u apply to many companies at a time, u will get more opportunities to prove urself..
In some situation alternatives are automatically available..for eg when a boyfriend ditches the heroin of film,2 other heroes will be in queue for giving her support.. but many times in our life we ourself need to find out the alternative paths.. with this 'else' condition, we can not avoid the sorrow and tears.. but yes it helps to come out from dark situation within short time and gives new hope for starting new life again.. :)
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